Tim, thanks for taking time to read and respond (again). You bring up a good point - it's a power grab. I alluded to that in the original piece, in reference to street harassment or catcalling. The action is different but it seems to me the motivation and intent may be similar. I admit I'll have my blind spots as I am not a white man on the internet feeling called out by what a stranger wrote. I don't think you, Tim, land in that category but you do offer an insight into that mindset that I, as a woman, can't personally relate to.