It’d be great if all of us could relax and enjoy dancing, or any other act of daily life. I’m not saying women don’t occasionally look at or objectify men in a similar way but I think it’s really difficult for cis-het men to conceptualize just how much this impacts our daily thoughts and actions. It goes far beyond just being able to enjoy something…it’s a matter of personal safety, embodiment, and feeling free to exercise autonomy.